For most, Valentine’s Day is in the middle of winter, on a cold month when you are supposed to feel warm and cosy – or passionate – and not damp and frigid. Of course, you can always get your ‘fire’ going if you are privileged to be with your beloved, and passionate fire sounds great. But if your spirits are down because outside temperatures are down, you’ll find ideas below.
Heat Things Up in the Bedroom
Candles fill a room with romance… a golden glow certainly makes anything look warmer While romantic mood lighting certainly makes things steamy, the golden glow of a candle is a known aphrodisiac. Furthermore, the candles themselves can heat things up literally; some massage candles are made of super soft wax that melts at a low enough temperature that you can rub the lumenated oil into each other’s flesh. That said, all that touchy-feely can’t help but get your temperature rising.
Not quite trusting the candle flame – admit it, relationships can get weird – use warming oils for your massage; they warm with contact and with some, like Sizzle Lips, a little help from your breath on blow. For serious massage heat, use the massage stone with them. And if you want to warm the atmosphere of your room, drape a sheer scarf over your lamp. Use a ruby, or rust or golden shade to set the mood.
You’ll also find warming lubricants that do the same (Intimate Earth makes a version). Intercourse creates friction. Kazndr: One word of advice, the warming effect isn’t dramatic. It starts subtle, but it can get overwhelming or painful. Rub some on your inner thigh to test, and use less than you think you need. Mix it with your favorite lube to tone it down.
Just because you’re being safe, doesn’t mean your sex life should be boring. Trojan Fire & Ice Condoms heat and tingle for a spicy and safe romp. Not just relevant for sex because, you know, the condom prevents pregnancy and STI transmission.
Should you need to get away from it all, sex toys can help: there’s plenty of choice, should the heatwave be your thing.
● Heated vibrators do all the work for you. Try the Triple Infinity Heated Suction Vibrator, or the Whisper Micro Heated Bullet (which is a bit more versatile).
• Glass, metal and ceramic toys conduct temperature readily. Soak one in a bowl of warm water, and it becomes warm in seconds. The ability for materials other than glass, metal and ceramics to pick up and lose temperature varies, but many respond to temperature a bit and some quite a bit.
●Pair your favorite sex toy with warming lube.
● The Red Hot Gift Set might be hot in name only, but it’s a sexy way to get you and your valentine started with sex toys.
Be Sizzling in Lingerie
Heat in bed isn’t entirely about thermals. Sometimes it’s about tease, spark and a partner who oozes sex appeal. We’re not going to write a Valentine’s Day blogpost without lingerie, are we? Even if your partner rends it to shreds, it was worth the effort to get the look on their face.
You can be burnin’ in any hue of lingerie you care to wear, and because of the ranges of styles – chemises, corsets/bustiers, teddies/bodysuits, and dresses – there’s something perfect for you that you’ll enjoy from every angle: bare-naked, viewed, and fondled. Just in case you’re stymied, here are some tips.
A waterproof sex blanket surely has a place on any list of camping essentials – OK, OK, if it wasn’t for the fact that you’re likely to keep it below you, trying not to drown in the sea of oils and bodily fluids that passes for sex. But maybe you can use it for warmth – just in case.
● Customers love the Victorian Lace Bustier and Thong in straight and plus sizing and also your choice of colors!
●The stretch material in the Plus Size Girl Gone Bad Dress fits every girthy body.
The Scalloped Lace Open Cup Underwire Shelf Bra is an essential piece, when paired with panties, pasties and a robe.
●Check out the feminine Lace-Up Back Sheer Garter Dress with its elegant lace panels.
● Choose from red, plum or black for the Charmeuse Short Kimono Robe and Chemise
And because the Plus Size Lace Halter Mini Dress is fit-and-flare, it fits in all the right places!
•Ribbon and lace bring the Eyelash Lace Teddy to a whole new level for the entire body If you think sentences are sexier with some spice, here’s some helpful info.
● The Crochet Net Spaghetti Strap Bodystocking might cover your hoohah and your hiney but not your twat.
●If you want to breathe, try a Stretch Lace Babydoll with High Neck!
Don’t forget your fragrance, lipstick and a pair of shoes to match!
Now, what are you waiting for? Valentine’s Day is right around the corner!
Larry Henderson
Gothamsextoys.com
